9/12/2020 Let’s Be Blunt: What’s Allowed in Marriage (Hint: It’s Simple) MILD CONTENT ALERTRead Now Sspx Take on Marriage and the family. Worth reading. Most people, even most “Catholics” have no idea what is morally permissible in terms of chastity and sexual purity-ESPECIALLY once they’re married. So many souls are lost to hell because they were either misguided or ignored what our Lord has explicitly laid out for us. Sex is only permissible if these requirements are met: 1) Validly married man and woman 2) No contraception of any kind 3) Male genitalia into female genitalia 4) Openness to life The ONLY people who should be having sex are married couples- one man, one woman. Not married? Fornication. Using the pill? Contraception is a no-no. Penis going somewhere other than inside his wife’s vagina? Also no-no. Gay couple? Um, no. Your same sex attraction does not qualify. And why is that? The act itself must be ordered toward procreation every time. Unity of the spouses is VERY secondary. God designed us this way to carry on our species. “But my priest said I can use the pill.” “But I don’t like being pregnant.” ”One child is enough” ”We just bought a car” No. No. No. (Any priest permitting contraception is wrong) Let me ask you, dear married couple... why’d you guys even get married? So you could have sex all the time? So you could file jointly on your taxes? Because you “love” them? Marriage is more than just a contract. Love is more than just feelings. Love is about sacrifice, and you both have marital debt to pay one-another. Marriage is designed to continue our society with stable upbringing of children. Anything less than being open to life in the marital act is sinful.
“BUT, Millennial Mom, what about NFP?” NFP, to my understanding, is to be used sparingly. Women, ask yourself: Is there a medical reason you should be avoiding fertile days and openness to pregnancy? Physical or (serious) mental? Are you in a state of serious poverty? At the end of the day, discuss your concerns with your priest, (traditional priest!) but from what I’ve read, traditionally speaking, NFP is only supposed to be used for serious reasons. Or abstain altogether until the issue is resolved. Spacing births really depends on a woman’s health. Doctors will mostly recommend between 12-18 months between pregnancies. But most women go on to have healthy babies regardless of spacing. Pray the Rosary. Pray for friends and neighbors. Pray for the conversion of the world to the One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church. Comments are closed.
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